Thursday, June 26, 2008

The Garden of Earthly Delights- Bosch

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I took a Humanities class with Joe while we were dating at BYU and of course flourished in the subject. I am artsy fartsy, I crave culture... although really artsy farsty culture would be an oxymoron. Like Cultural Reno. But I digress... yet again.

We studied this painting and I always loved it... perhaps because it reminded me of Where's Waldo books. I know. How is it possible I got an A in the class barely studying, comparing major historical works of art to Martin Handford. And Joe, a meager C+ working his tail off. Yet, I do feel I should mention he was the one on full-ride scholarship... not me!

So Bosch created this triptych (1510 ish) to give his portrayal of paradise, earth and hell. And I post it and meditate on it for 2 reasons. 1. Joe has been gone now for 3 days (2 more to go)... HELL. (I exaggerate. I know. I just miss him though!) and 2.We live amidst fire and smoke... HELL. As the wind blows all the smoke from the California (some 800 right?) fires, I am finding it hard to breath, especially in a sweltering home that has no AC. Woe is me, my little over dramatic self!

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Designing A Blog

I can't believe I spent an hour trying to figure out how to customize my blog. I think it's bright and cheery. It's me-ish. On meth. No really though... I think I just did it because I get so nervous when it comes to technology and I'm just not that savvy. But there. Bam. I did it. I think sjhblogdesign.blogspot.com was the most efficient and well detailed instruction guide ever. Kudos Miss SJH. I feel somehow superior. I beat the tech system. For now.
In a week I'll probably just go back to the old background.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Melt Me Melissa Mahlmstead Monday Mornings

My Sweet Christinoula. Precious Nina. You always love to tell me I'm the best mommy in the whole wide world. Then you proceed to give me a big hug and say I love you so much, with such feeling and gusto. Yesterday you said I'm going to grow up to be a great mommy just like you.

You melt me. You and Maria (and daddy!) are my greatest blessings. You have taught me more about life and love than I ever thought possible. You will be the best mothers on earth! But please... not too soon my lil weirdo...

Monday, June 23, 2008

Tsk Tsk AOL News

When I went to check my email today I spied a thing on religion. This article talked about how America is pretty tolerant of religion and gave stats of the largest groups in America. Well the largest was Christian at 78.4% and then listed separately was Mormon at around 2%. (To see the fairly uninteresting article which didn't even bother to check major facts about my religion click here.)

BOO! HELLO!!

AOL authors need to become a little more versed in what they are writing!!!

"Mormons" is not our official name. We are The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter Day Saints. We believe in the bible. We believe in the book of Mormon as another testament of Jesus Christ, after he was resurrected and came to people in the Americas. We believe in baptism for the remission of sins. We believe that families can be together forever. We believe in prophets and apostles as was had before and in the days of Christ himself. Our beliefs are simple and straightforward. I share my beliefs with others because I like to spread happiness.

So basically, AOL, Mormons are Christian. He is our Saviour, He is our Lord. Get it straight before you go spreading misinformation.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Blood Sista Ang

Angela... newest edition to blood sister, and I just click. She is real. She is down to earth, easy to talk to. Just plain fun. I love everything about her. It's actually almost creepy how similar we are. Anyways, we've only known each other for about a year and she recently moved out of the ward... LOSS. It was goodbye to a Ward Mission Leader and an awesome, reliable primary teacher.... But we're surviving. (As a side note, to see what a blood sister is to me click here.)

She is having baby #2, aka Colton or Julio or Enrique in a couple weeks! I'm so excited! It's like I'm having a baby but don't have to do any of the hard work! Or lose any sleep! So we had an awesome shower (I know... modesty!), but honestly the food was really good. The company was nice and it was just very relaxing and chill. Now, if only Ang could get rid of that nasty head cold!

Ang and a sis-in-law.

Remember when Sister Knight was my Young Women's president? I bet $100 I drove her nuts and up the wall. Yet, she still loves me and does not shun me.

No, I'm not prego. Just need to lay off the little debbies.

Maria was in 7th heaven with the leftovers. She ate all her quiche! I can't believe how much she likes eggs. I guess they are supposedly a "miracle" food... but really, isn't all food a miracle. I think a better slogan for eggs would be "because this crack is good for you." Pardon my off the wall humor.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

The helpers

Why am I so lucky? Seriously. They are the best helpers ever!

And she does carpets for free!!

Sometimes in the morning...

When Maria is hungry, she lets me know...

And if I don't feed her quick enough, she fends for herself...

I know what you're thinking. It's one of two things. A-She's gorgeous and I should put her in pageant. or B- She's gorgeous and I should make her a model for the bronze statues of children they put in parks and malls.
"Bronze Me Mommy."

All her molars are in. They came in all at the same time. She's been a trooper! She was actually saying the word "molar" when I took this picture. Ok. Maybe not.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Our First Sparks Farmer's Market

30 minutes in 102 degrees, waiting for the bus in the wrong spot.
The bus ride! Fantastic! A man with 30 tattoos carried my stroller for me and his drop dead gorgeous Asian wife held Christina's hand to help her down the stairs. There are still good people out there!
Playing in the downtown free fountains instead of the $5 for 2 minutes bounce house.
The real reason we really went to farmer's market. Just to ride the bus... for free. And get the free fruit samples. I couldn't believe, it was actually pretty big! (theme: free) There must have been at least a thousand people there.
Then we came home, the palletero man was stalking us so I succumbed. That spiderman icee popsicle thing was the grossest thing I've ever tasted in my life. The girls were getting a kick out of the face I made each time I took a lick and then the ensuing vomit sounds. Ew. Am I being a bit of a vocab snob? 2 readers digest type words in 1 paragraph!
* As a side note, this was my first bus trip with both girls by myself. I know. I'm such a wimp. But it actually went really well! We ate at in and out and it was a crack up to see Maria just enjoying dipping her fries in ketchup and then eating them. She's so dainty... at times.

4th of July Sneak Peak


To all my mailers.... just a fun sneak peak at the gorgeous and awesome pictures I got!

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Daddy Bobby

My dad is the keymaster. I'm sure I've talked about this before. I'm so proud that he is the keymaster. He's not a lawyer, he's not a doctor, he didn't finish college. He gave it all up for me. He holds to the key to my heart forever. Along with every single key to the Reno, NV main post office, which are supervised closely in his wire caged, gun stored, work enclosure.
My dad lived in the bay area most of his life, but the time came when he moved to Reno. He worked as a bagger and checker at Raley's, with my Yaya, and soon became friends with my mom. She had been recently baptized into the LDS faith and invited him to take the discussions. He followed suit. I always am in awe of their faith.

My dad worked hard my entire life and I never wanted for anything. I truly have lived a choice life. My dad always encouraged and supported me. I was never really as grateful as I should have been, but he stuck in there with me. He saw me make many mistakes, but he did nothing but love me. He makes me feel like I have infinite worth. He taught me consistency, he taught me sacrifice. He is my calm when the sea is awry. I think though, one of the greatest things I have learned from him is how to hold it together, even when you're tired. Working on graveyard, balancing his calling at church, spending time with family and for personal study... all on minimal sleep is truly a great accomplishment.



I love that he was there for Jody, when our engagement seemed to be quite stressful. Joe took him out in his 1979 Chevy Cavalier, "the champ", that shook for 2 whole minutes after the car was turned off, and told him everything would be alright. He never judged Joe, he loved him right away. I love that he adores my daughters and that they always run straight to him with arms in the air. I think they'd let him hold them 24-7 if possible. He is the best grandfather and father anyone could ever pray or ask for.

One last thing. My dad knows everything. I could ask him any question on earth, and he'd come up with an answer. He may just be pulling it out of thin air, but he does so convincingly. And I love that about him. It's entertaining.

I'm so glad when Daddy comes home...


I dressed up the girls in daddy's clothes just for some fun... Maria had to sport his BoyzIIMen shirt with OAKland hat... I love my family fun magazine! Best ideas ever! And then I framed them and will give them to him tomorrow.

Before Joe had 3 jobs (Thank you Govenor Gibbons... boo to you texting your mistress with government funds and then cutting the education budget by $6 million), you could often find me and my children in lawn chairs in the driveway around 6ish. We would eagerly await the coming home of daddy, run to him and sing "Daddy's homecoming" from the children's primary songbook. However, I never really knew the words so we'd sing, "Wrap my arms around his neck and then I go pee." Because I couldn't think of anything that could rhyme with the previous line ending in knee. When daddy came home, we were complete!


Now, times have changed, but that excitement is still there when we're able to see daddy before bedtime! The girls run to him and hug him tight!! Our daddy is so patient. He never raises his voice. He always cleans the house and is the ultimate organizer. He reads to our daughters often. He talks to our daughters about education everyday. He listens and gives wise words, plenty of food for thought. He is a hard worker and provides everything for us. Not only that though, he never questions what I'm doing with his hard earned money. He is always encouraging me to give no matter what because it's good for our daughters to see. He is the head of our home, he leads us in righteousness and is a holder of the Melchidezek Priesthood. Meaning, he lives his life in such a way that he can call down the blessings of heaven to benefit our home, whether it be healing or comforting or inspiration or for many other things. For that, I love him more than words could ever possibly express. We have been sealed for eternity by proper authority in God's holy temple, and as we strive to live in accordance with God's commands and uphold the covenants we've made in that sacred place, we have found peace that can be found nowhere else. We have found joy that can be found nowhere else. I'm so grateful to be sealed to this wonderful wonderful man. He's destined for greatness, he is greatness. Happy Father's day Joe!

Friday, June 13, 2008

Real Men Don't...

Joe. I love you. Thank you for cleaning out the bathroom sink and unclogging all the nastiness that came along with it. You are Mr. Fix it. Thank you for cleaning out the garage and reorganizing, it looks amazing times a million. And thank you for scrubbing the bathtub, our children are healthier for it.

I rambled off a list to you in moment of complaining and self-pity, and you being the thoughtful, kind and perfect angel you are, did everything... until 3 in the morning. Thank you for being the man you are and for not being like the T-Shirt. I'm grateful for eternity and that I get to spend it with you... even though you don't have an appendix.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

So Smart

That's right. Christina is a genius. Plain and Simple. She learned her first article of faith so quickly, I decided to see how the 13th would go. End results as follows. Mind you, she isn't even 4 yet.

Walking and or Strutting

Joe has lost about 25 lbs since his surgery. I'm happy for him. It's good to be healthy. I've probably gained 25 lbs since his surgery. I'm happy, but large.


He's been walking/strutting everyday. So I try to walk everyday. I fear lest he should ever weigh less than me. If I have to give up my devil dogs... so be it. Well... maybe not my devil dogs. I'll just slip more butter in his food.
Why do I always go off subject? What is my problem? Oh how Mrs. Rishel, my non-favorite English teacher who suspended Ronja for going to a choral practice with me for no good reason (in regards to both the suspension and her coming with me to a choral practice), would cringe along with the fact that this sentence is too long. Joy.


So I've been walking, and last friday when Maria got her immunizations, I took a walk from downtown Reno to Idlewild Park. Again, a tangent. They tore down all the rides! Gone!! I can't even believe it! But the girls enjoyed the park and I always enjoy watching them. What a lesson to learn from children. Pure enjoyment. Humility. Obedience. Happiness. They hold the key to the secrets of life!!

The Exhibitionist


She likes to show people her bellybutton. Often.

16-18 Hours In the Wilderness

Let me just say that if I could run around in a cotton dress with a flower in my hair and be barefoot all the time, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Breathing the fresh air, driving a mini-van and camping every weekend, singing songs on a guitar by the campfire... heavenly. I'd do this and be happy.
But things get in the way. Bugs, dirt, smoke, did I mention dirt? cold nights... Odd men that camp in groups together. On a Monday day. Toilets that don't flush.

5 minutes into the trip... not even joking.
I really am a camper at heart. It's just doing it that isn't so great. I love the views, the fresh air, the sunshine. We went to Truckee on Monday after Joe's "excursion" to SLC. (He will make his first appearance guest blogging! Soon!) It was really weird, because I've always considered Christina a little me, but out roughin' it, she was a stranger to me. She was out playing in the shrubs with the ticks, digging in the dirt, running in the lake, exploring, gathering sticks like a wilderness pro... Joe is more of a camper. I guess she takes after her dad in that respect. Although he does say he only camps if he has too.



Maria did not like camping. She played in the dirt, but wanted to be held the entire time. Including bed time. So it was like when she was a newborn, but add 20 pounds and my chest feels like it will collapse...even though my arms never mind holding her. Ahhh... if only she would want to be held her entire life! They went to bed at 10 ish and woke up about 5ish... possibly earlier. Needless to say, Mommy was done and ready for a shower at 9ish. Please don't get me wrong. We had a wonderful time! It's just the dirt.


** I did forget to mention that Joe taught Christina how to make smores. We always talk about them, but this was the first time she actually got to do it. At first, she just started eating marshmallows from the pack, then Joe told her we had to put them in the fire. So she starts throwing them in the fire. Then he teaches her how to put them on a stick. Which she did beautifully! Although one did catch on fire and somehow ended up on my sweatshirt which in turn singed it. All worth it! Delicious!!

Sunday, June 8, 2008

I'll dip you!!

Photo courtesy Photobucket, picture Shrimp Man by vero1313_2006


Christina: I just can't do it.
Mommy : You are a shrimp. I am going to dip you in cocktail sauce and eat you!
Christina: Well... (short thoughtful pause) you are a weenie and I'm going to dip YOU in ketchup and eat you!

Saturday, June 7, 2008

The Boys


I have no sons, but if I did, I'd want them to be like these boys. These boys have been through a lot in life. They remind me of Joe. But they are honest and they are hard working. Today was a garage sale for scouts, they have spent days helping and preparing. They are smart and kind.

Last year at the scout camp they took first and second in some big race... out of like a thousand boys. Power to ya Joe, KJ, Tony and Darnell. After the sale, we went out for lunch at Black Bear Diner. It went by fast. Now Joe is on a train to SLC to celebrate the 30 year commemoration of the restoration of Blacks and the priesthood. Can't wait to post all the crazy AmTrack (sp?) stories he'll have.

Friday, June 6, 2008

The Tortilla Man


Bishop Z can also be known as the tortilla man. He is a straight laced German, uber organized, sings opera and I love him a lot. He had a steady job his whole life, but times changed and he found himself with a large white truck, selling tortillas and chips. And when there were too many, or ready to expire flour or corn goodness, he generously shared.

Some people in our ward have problems with him. Some people in our ward are very vocal about having problems with him. Some people have even gone inactive, blaming him. Some people. Some people.

Finally, enough was enough. I was in the mother's lounge nursing little mama and this inactive member starts railing. First of all, I'm nursing. Let's have some peace. But no, the mocking and talking bad continues. I really wonder how God controls himself. Seriously. If I had all power to throw down fire from heaven, the earth would be slightly singed to say the least. I'm not saying anything, you think she'd get the hint. But sometimes you just need to be bold.

So this is what I told her. When Joe was set apart as the Young Men's president, Bishop Z gave him a blessing.

** Side note, what is a blessing? By the laying on of hands (on Joe's head) and by inspiration, those giving the blessing proceed to give wisdom and council from our Father in Heaven (as directed by the Holy Ghost). The scriptures are full of many accounts where blessings involving the laying on of hands are given. (Hebrews Chapter 6 verse 2, Numbers chapter 27 verse 18, 1 Timothy chapter 4 verse 14, Mark chapter 16 verse 18)

Bishop Z and Joe see each other at church, but they aren't bosom buddies who share every little detail about their lives. Joe loves the Bishop. My point is though, what the Bishop proceeded to say could not have just been through talking or knowing Joe. It was pure direction from our Heavenly Father. The Bishop quoted almost word for word another blessing Joe had received (one that is written down, called the Patriarchal Blessing). The Bishop is an inspired man. He may not be perfect, but neither am I or anyone else for that matter. Only our Saviour is. And that's the nice thing. He's got His church. He's the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. He's organized and perfect. So let's just follow Him already and do what needs to be done.

I once read a quote that you can dispute a lot of things in life. You can argue this way or that. But you can't dispute the feelings of peace or testimony that one has. For example, I know that the Bible and the Book of Mormon are the word of God. I read them everyday, I ponder them, I pray about the words written and I've felt peace and warmth in the messages found in those divine pages. You may disagree, but you can't tell me I haven't had those manifestations of truthfulness. I have had them. That's why I continue to read them everyday and share with whoever is willing to listen.

I've made important promises to sustain and support my local church leaders. I feel saddened when people are quick to judge or nit pick. The tortilla man once wrote a letter of recommendation for Joe. In it he said that he feels a tremendous pressure to make sure the young men of the ward have strong leadership. He said in his prayerful consideration who should head that section of the ward, he knew that he could only choose the best of the best, which was Joe. My husband is greatness defined. Any person who realizes this is a beloved friend of mine. So Bishop Z, lead me and guide me. Thank you for your service. I know you have been appointed by the Lord to this calling these past 7 years, I've felt it in my heart and know that it's right!

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Yaya Sofia's Garden in Bloom

She's got the magic touch! Every year, just spectacular!