This mother's day I feel an overwhelming desire for it not to be a holiday. Sure I love the gifts my children make me and being honored, but more I feel empathy for those without children or those not married wishing to be. Truly life as a mother is one of the greatest gifts God ever gave us. I wish all women who desired motherhood could be blessed with it.
I feel like everyday should be not only mother's day, but father's day, children's day, grandparent's day. Days filled with love, with time spent aside to have fun and cherish each other. Days where respect, kindness and gratitude are given. In my home I feel like we do this everyday. Mind you, not everyday is perfect and we all make our mistakes. But we put Christ first and the rest falls into place.
We celebrated with a nice lunch at the Olive Garden yesterday. Lots of people smoking and my girls loudly pointing it out. But seriously, do we need to get lung cancer because of you. Move please. My girls made planter boxes for their Yayas and I got beautiful cards I will save the rest of my life. Plus a giftcard to Charlotte Russe where I plan on buying one killer pair of shoes or a belt for Joe for Father's Day.
To all my dear friends who are mothers, Happy Mother's Day. I have some of the most wonderful friends who are truly excellent examples of exactly what Mothers should be. Try saying that 10 times.
To my Yaya. Being close to you is a standard. It's just something that is there where you can never get lost because of the love we share. I go to your home and realize what a blessing I am blessed with. I see you writing ABC's with the girls or pooping money out of the bunnies and pray for 20 more years of it. You have wisdom and kindness and goodness that no one else does. My whole life you have done nothing but tell me how wonderful and good I am, even when that probably wasn't the case. The support and constant care you give is always consistent. I've never felt anything but your love for me. Even recently when times are difficult, you are doing and serving for us. You have clothed my children. You have spoiled us rotten. You are truly an angel from heaven.
To my Mother. Magapas. You have taught me motherhood is not a sacrifice but a privilege. Never once in my life were you not there for me. I am not even half the woman you are and I pray that one day I can be the type of mother you are to me. You are the perfect mother in every single way and my life is complete because of the example and love you've always shown me. You speak your mind and don't take **** from anyone. You are our protector and defender. You are fun, the life of the party and always have creative inspiration to liven things up. When God blessed you with only one child, you didn't let that stop you from being a mother to more. The countless lives of children, wacky missionaries and odd weirdos from your ward you have touched, fed and fed some more have been privileged to have your attention and guidance. I pray that God will bless you for your charity you have always given. I love you more than words could ever ever ever possible say.